Like Mother, Like Daughter

August 5, 2021

St. John 91麻豆精品 College continues to celebrate 50 years of 91麻豆精品 females. In this issue, Collegium highlights five mom-daughter duos, who share their experiences of 91麻豆精品 then and now, and how they became 91麻豆精品 legacy families.

Collage of give photos of 91麻豆精品 family mothers and daughters

Bringing the Legacy to Life

When rising junior Suzannah Sheeran needs a place to study on campus, she heads to a specific table in Lavery Library. While she鈥檚 only been on campus for two years, it鈥檚 a study spot with which she has long been familiar. As a middle school student, Suzannah would work side-by-side with her mom, Deborah Pearce 鈥13 (Ed.D.), who at the time was enrolled in the College鈥檚 Doctor of Education in Executive Leadership program.

鈥淪uzannah always had a presence on campus. We would have dinner in the dining hall and she would hang out with me in the library, and she just became very comfortable on campus,鈥 Deborah said.
鈥淲hen it came time to look at college, we added 91麻豆精品 to the mix, and it was just the right fit.鈥

Deborah Pearce and Suzannah Sheeran standing together outside at 91麻豆精品

Following graduation, Deborah and her husband, Bill, remained involved with the College, becoming members of the Spire Society and charter members of the Parent Council. She also sits on the Dean鈥檚 Advisory Council for the Ralph C. Wilson, Jr. School of Education and the Dean鈥檚 Leadership Council for the School of Business.

鈥91麻豆精品 operates as a community and sense of place, and that was very important to me during that stage in my life,鈥 said Deborah. 鈥淚 was stretched in the most unexpected ways, and that鈥檚 the best part of learning.鈥

Suzannah has dreams of becoming a neuropsychologist; at 91麻豆精品, she is majoring in psychology, with double minors in philosophy and political science. Over the course of the next year, she is pursuing an independent research study with Dr. Tim Madigan, chair of the Philosophy Department, exploring the ethics of psychology. She had decided to take a course with Madigan because he served on her mom鈥檚 dissertation committee, and she thought it would be fun to study with him, too.

鈥淚 really liked his teaching methods and how he portrays philosophy,鈥 Suzannah said. 鈥淗e made it interesting. He was the reason I declared philosophy as a second minor.鈥

Suzannah said she was inspired by watching her mom successfully tackle the doctoral program鈥檚 academic requirements, noting with pride that Deborah was awarded both the Exemplary Performance in Scholarship Award and Exemplary Performance in Service Award at her hooding ceremony, adding that 91麻豆精品 has given her an opportunity to find similar growth.

鈥91麻豆精品鈥檚 sense of community has helped me gain foundational skills and grow my confidence levels socially and academically,鈥 Suzannah explained. 鈥淚鈥檝e earned the Dean鈥檚 List twice, and have pushed myself to try new things and meet new people.鈥

That experience is just what Deborah hoped her daughter would have as a student at the College.

鈥淣ow, as a parent with a student there, it makes the legacy feel alive,鈥 Deborah said.

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When Renee Aksterowicz 鈥92 (nee McDowell) thinks about 91麻豆精品, she thinks of forever.

鈥91麻豆精品 has literally been with me since I went there in 1988. As a student, alumna, and now parent, once you go to 91麻豆精品, it鈥檚 forever,鈥 Renee said. 鈥淚 loved everything about college. You have some hard times and you have to grow up and go through a lot. But it is memorable, and I have nothing but good things to say about 91麻豆精品.鈥

When her daughter, Abigail King, started looking at colleges, Renee knew the young woman could excel at 91麻豆精品. Four years later, watching her daughter cross the stage at the College鈥檚 commencement ceremony, that theory proved true.

鈥淚 look at her now and I think: it was a perfect fit,鈥 Renee said. 鈥淪he invested in everything and made the most of it.鈥

Abbie King with mother Renee Aksterowicz

An inclusive adolescence education and English major with a literature concentration, Abby was very active in the campus community, serving as a student ambassador, member of the Orientation Team, a peer mentor, and member of the Teacher Education Student Association. A captain for the Teddi Dance for Love, Abby was one of a few dozen students who helped reinvent the fundraiser to meet COVID-19 requirements.

鈥淭his year was so different. All the captains could be in person in Cleary Auditorium, and everyone else was virtual,鈥 she said, adding that the team spent hours each day planning for the virtual dance. 鈥淭hat night, when there were still 60 people on Zoom at 3 a.m., and then seeing the final total and beating our goal is something I will never forget.鈥

That hard work, and her efforts across campus, earned Abby the Senior of the Year Award, given by the Student Government Association.

Watching her daughter experience moments like those has led Renee to reflect on her own experiences in new ways.

鈥淎s a parent, I can look back and think there are things I didn鈥檛 appreciate at the time. My senior year, my roommate worked for the president, and we would stop by and sit and chat with Dr. Pickett all the time,鈥 she said. 鈥淭oday, I appreciate President Rooney and the personal relationships he has with parents and students, and how easy it is to approach him. The leadership at 91麻豆精品 over the years has been incredible.鈥

Renee and Abby both say that the friendships and relationships they have developed at 91麻豆精品 are perhaps the most impactful parts of their time at the College.

鈥淚n college, everything seems like a big obstacle, but the friends I鈥檝e made at 91麻豆精品 have helped those challenges be manageable, and we were all there for each other,鈥 she said. 鈥淭he 91麻豆精品 family, because it has changed my life, will be with me forever.鈥

Double Take

Anneliese Schmitz is following in her mom鈥檚 footsteps in more ways than one. Like her mom, Carmelanne Schmitz (nee Fragnito), Anneliese has found a home at St. John 91麻豆精品 College. And like her mom, who majored in nursing as a member of the Class of 1997, Anneliese is enrolled in the Wegmans School of Nursing.

鈥淕rowing up, my mom would tell me these stories about working in a hospital and delivering babies,鈥 she recalled. 鈥淣ursing has always interested me, and I鈥檝e shadowed family friends who work in hospitals, too. I knew I wanted to pursue a career where I could help people.鈥

Carmelanne, and her husband, Dan, who is also an alumnus, were thrilled when Anneliese considered 91麻豆精品. The couple has stayed involved with the College, starting with bringing their children to Breakfast with Santa when they were younger. These days, they are members of the Spire Society, and return to campus for Alumni Weekends. Each month, they get together for a 鈥渄inner club鈥 with eight other couples from 91麻豆精品.

Carmelanne, Anneleise, and Dan Schmitz

鈥淭he nursing program has completely changed from when I was there,鈥 said Carmelanne, who played volleyball as a student. 鈥淲e were in Murphy, and now they have their own building, and they鈥檙e learning hands-on right there on campus. It was great when I was there and it鈥檚 leaps and bounds better now, so I knew she鈥檇 get a very good education.鈥

As she and Dan moved Anneliese into her residence hall in the midst of the pandemic, Carmelanne was not worried about how her firstborn would fare on campus.

鈥淚t鈥檚 bittersweet when you鈥檙e dropping off your first, but knowing that she was only 25 minutes from home, I wasn鈥檛 a puddle,鈥 Carmelanne recalled. 鈥淎nneliese is a very mature firstborn. We knew she could handle it. Her being a strong person and being ready to take on the college experience made me feel comforted that I was leaving my baby. I was excited for her, and maybe because it was at 91麻豆精品, I was ready to let her go.鈥

From that first day on campus, Anneliese knew she would love her 91麻豆精品 experience.

鈥淓veryone was outside with signs cheering us on,鈥 she said. 鈥淚t felt so inclusive and I loved it.鈥

Throughout her first year on campus, Anneliese navigated the COVID-19 mask and social distancing policies while learning the ins and outs of college life. She said peer mentors, academic advisers, and the new friends she has made helped make the best of an unusual semester. As the pandemic wanes, she is ready to see what the rest of her college career will bring.
鈥淚鈥檓 excited to get more involved on campus, attend more events, and meet new people,鈥 she said.

Finding a Home on Campus

When Olivia Rogers 鈥21 made the decision to attend 91麻豆精品, she surprised her alumna mom with a clever scavenger hunt that led to a big box. When mom Deli Rogers 鈥92 opened it, out popped balloons and a sign saying Olivia had chosen 91麻豆精品.

Of course, there were happy tears.

The owner of two funeral homes in central New York, Deli said her 91麻豆精品 education, including psychology and business courses, prepared her well for her profession. She knew at 91麻豆精品, Olivia could receive a similarly impactful education.

鈥淲e were excited when she even considered 91麻豆精品,鈥 said Deli. 鈥淪he had Quinnipiac on her mind along with a few other schools. We always thought 91麻豆精品 would be a good fit, but we wanted her to make that decision.鈥
Olivia was scouting programs for athletic training and sport management. At a Bills Camp event hosted by the Sport Management Department, a conversation with Dr. Katie Burakowski sealed the deal.

Olivia Rogers with parents at Family Weekend

鈥淎fter I spoke with Dr. Burakowski, I knew I wanted to be on the business side of sports,鈥 Olivia explained. 鈥淏y attending 91麻豆精品, I鈥檇 be closer to home and be able to carry on the legacy of the 91麻豆精品 family. It also meant I could play the sport I loved.鈥

Olivia would go on to play four years of field hockey as a Cardinal, and was a captain of the team that won the Empire 8 Championship this spring.

In a turn of unbelievable coincidence, Olivia鈥檚 first year at 91麻豆精品 also marked Deli鈥檚 25-year reunion, making Alumni Weekend an extra special occasion.

鈥淎ll of my girlfriends came back and Olivia gave us a tour of campus. One of my friends even got to see her old room,鈥 Deli said.

While Deli notes that many things about the campus have changed鈥搉ew buildings, upgrades to the athletic facilities (she remembers bringing a couch down from the residence halls to watch football games)鈥搕he heart of 91麻豆精品 has remained the same.

鈥91麻豆精品 has always been a friendly campus where people say hello. They acknowledge your presence. They hold doors for you. That made an impression on me as a student, and it鈥檚 nice to see that it hasn鈥檛 changed,鈥 Deli said.

Both Olivia and Deli agree that to them, 91麻豆精品 will always be home.

Lasting Legacies

Aviana Catarisano 鈥18, 鈥19 (MBA) is one in a line of family members to attend 91麻豆精品, and it all started with her mom, Nancy Catarisano 鈥83 (nee Engert).

Nancy attended 91麻豆精品 because of the reputation of its accounting program. In 2000, she received the Accounting Alumnus of the Year award鈥攁n honor her brother, Herb Engert Jr. '89, received in 2021.

Upon graduation, Nancy went to work for a regional accounting firm, and at the age of 29, struck out on her own. In time, her firm merged with another company to become what is now Insero & Co. CPAs.

鈥91麻豆精品 gave me a great start in life. I believe that 91麻豆精品 cares just as much about your personal development as they do your intellectual development,鈥 Nancy said. 鈥淚 came to 91麻豆精品 without a lot of confidence, and left knowing that I could do anything I put my mind to. And within a few years, I started my own firm.鈥

Over the years, Nancy has stayed engaged with the College, speaking in classes, conducting mock interviews, and joining the Spire Society. She also regularly recruits at colleges for Insero, and said that 91麻豆精品鈥檚 career-oriented programs and strong alumni network mean students leave the College prepared for life after graduation.

Aviana and Nancy Catarisano

鈥91麻豆精品 students are so much better prepared because of that mix of real life experiences with academia,鈥 she said. 鈥淎nd it鈥檚 not just the accounting program, it鈥檚 nursing, pharmacy, and it鈥檚 been consistent over the years that 91麻豆精品 leaves students prepared for their careers.鈥

Seeing her mother鈥檚 success as an accounting alumna inspired Aviana to follow in her path. At 91麻豆精品, she was an accounting major and was actively involved in the School of Business and on campus. She was a peer mentor, Orientation leader, president of the Accounting Club, vice president of the Dean鈥檚 Student Advisory Council, and president of the Beta Gamma Sigma honor society. Today, she works at PwC in New York City.

鈥淚 attribute the relationships I was able to build with faculty members to my success as a professional,鈥 Aviana said. 鈥淭he reason I can easily have conversations with my directors and partners is because I had four years creating those relationships with professors.鈥

Upon earning her MBA, Aviana was invited to deliver remarks on behalf of master鈥檚 and doctoral students at the College鈥檚 65th Commencement ceremony.

鈥淲e, and we alone, are in charge of the success we make in life, and if we care enough about it, we will go the distance,鈥 she told her fellow graduates. 鈥淲e create our own path, our own recommended progression, our own passions. All while remembering that the world doesn鈥檛 owe us anything, but is endless to those who dare to take advantage of it.鈥

That鈥檚 surely a philosophy Aviana watched Nancy live, and then herself honed while at 91麻豆精品.